Today, I am in the forum, I saw the love of the netizens about the love of Shenzhen woman. Although I have a long time every day, I really want to consider the problems in these reality, or they will choose to face seriously.
A woman can come out to Shenzhen, which is really not easy. They are passionately holding a great dream to the bustling city, not only because of the temptation of material desires, because you want to achieve your own ideals or reflect your greatest value. I dare to believe, but when I am a woman in Shenzhen, most of them have a strong career.
However, the cruelty of life did not have a surprise when they just came to Shenzhen, thinking that the city, everything is ideal as if the tentacle can get, as long as you work hard. It is often not ideal for reality. The competition and survival of society allow them to see the essence of life: cruel and bloody.
I have a female classmate, just like this, she has a very strong career, so I chose to come to Shenzhen. However, when you really face Shenzhen, you have to consider your own condition because her height is 1.5. To choose the ideal career is really very embarrassing. Finding for nearly two months, I didn't find a suitable job, I had to leave. What is the way? Life is so real. It is not enough to be eliminated, let alone, so many outstanding talents in Shenzhen. However, there is still a bit of an unwilling girl, even if you don't realize your ideals, you have to pay the brain through the means of changing. Even how to keep my unforgettable love, once in front of the pressure of life, it will become hit. So, the transaction in the night appeared: what the milk three milk, the little lover appeared. These girls have to rely on the sale of themselves in this city, and they have to consider looking for a source of money that can rely on their own living security. What's more, through such means, they are more comfortable than those who work hard to live with their own hands.
I have pappy in the network, I love him, send him to Shenzhen, because it is paradise. Hate him, and sent him to Shenzhen, because it is hell. In some children who have worked hard with their own hands, they have not been very guaranteed in their own life. In fact, this can not blame the woman too real. A woman is going to face so many real questions, all lives very tired, can't find a living conditions, the same man. The tired of two people is not as tired. The panic of life allows them to choose a poor love, so there is a material base for their first choice. This is undoubtedly something worthy of understanding. Life is a little white-collar stage, because it can get the ability to get material, and more fully expanded the desire of people, and stepping into the white-collar work has brought unprecedented sense of accomplishment, and completed a sublimation. White collesves who can't marry it, their sorrow is that the spirit of sublimation is completely established on the basis of desire expansion, and the flesh is connected, and it is unparalleled. So, all mental behavior did not know how to brand the material blot, including feelings, "perfect feelings" change, can clearly understand how white, clear and clear words, and the feeling of instinct And gradually lose the trace.
When the instinum is opposed to the desire, people are easily lost. When instinctive and desires, people will be tired. You are lost, you are tired, because your sublimation, your sublimation crimped instinct: feel, you weaken the feeling of feelings, you become more rational, you become a white-collar worked. So, loneliness follows. So, one night came one after another. So, the city became tempting without limit. Mapping, meat, lust, covering.
